Category: Officiating Best Practices

Officiate With This Perfect 10-Part Wedding Ceremony Script

So you need to write a wedding ceremony script and officiate a wedding. Instead of grabbing a canned pre-written sample from one of the 695,691 webpages out there, start with the 10-part wedding ceremony script outline I use every weekend instead. A canned script is restrictive right out of the gate. It says, "I'm not really sure what I'm doing." When we use a wedding ceremony script outline, it communicates to our couple that we're structured and flexible. The process ends up being way more...

What to Say and How to Start the Ceremony When Officiating a Wedding

You're officiating a wedding. You make the last check of the five details, walk to the front of the room, turn, see 100+ people looking back at you, and take a breath to start the wedding ceremony. Here’s where our Choose Your Own Adventure begins. (Remember those books? Did I just date myself?) Scenario One: You say, “Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today….” Okay, fine. Let’s reserve judgment (for now) on your choice to start the ceremony that way. The question is: when you start like...